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Fight with partner

Left me feeling like does he he really care?
He has a different way of showing love.
But I sometimes do feel neglected and hurt.
He has the sick bug tonight and I’ve looked after him. But things weren’t the same when I was sick.
And I’m hurt by this.
Luckylu · 61-69, F
Everyone has their own love language and if you don’t talk to each other about what you need to feel loved moments like this happen. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Find out what he needs to feel loved and then tell him what makes you feel loved. Talk, negotiate find common ground to meet on. Most likely you are doing things for him that are what you feel everyone needs because it is what you need. He is most likely doing the same. He may have left you to yourself when you were sick because that is what he would want. You won’t know until you talk to each other. There are books on love language if you aren’t familiar with this concept.
jeancolby · 31-35, F
@Luckylu Great reply.
IWantToBreakFree · 36-40, F
Men for the most part have a really bad bedside manner when it comes to health issues. They expect you to take care of them when they’re ill but the minute you’re not feeling well it’s too much for them to handle
Justme264 · 70-79, M
@IWantToBreakFree this is true for many men... not all but many

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