When is it ok to ghost someone you love if something comes up?

Is it too much to expect at least a quick text to say they have something else they must attend to ? I dont demand to be top priority but give me the courtesy of a quick heads up so I dont wait all evening for nothing then wake up in the
middle of the night feeling hurt and feeling pathetic for feeling hurt.

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PrincessRoarBuddy · F

Have you made plans with that person?

Do YOU phone THEM ASWELL OR Do YOU let them get in touch ALL THE TIME.. Coz if that is so than maybe it is good to think how that makes the other person feel.

If not than just ignore what I said 🙃

BUT it is not good to "ghost" people..it is stupid, pathetic, unfair and not nice.

megrose · 56-60, F

@PrincessRoarBuddy i dont leave it up to the other person to do all the calling or texting. I tried to .contact a few times.