I Feel Alone

These are about me telling my crushes I have a crush on them. I always get the same response "sorry, I am not looking for a relationship", or " I am not in the right state of mind". Then they find someone like few weeks later and ends up dating them. It makes me think something is wrong with me and also that they are trying to be nice about it. It makes it worse, I wish they can just tell me how they feel instead. I just hate hearing the same excuses from all the guys. I know they aren't the one for me, but still... just being honest would be great, instead trying to be the nice guy.