how do you flirt with a man??? after being so hurt many many times.

its really hard to do that after being heart broken by someone you really loved deeply. this guy is nice and gentle. i can see it in his eyes. but.... we work together... so i really dont know what to do otherwise i would've been more blunt by now.

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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

A better question is why would you [i]want[/i] to flirt with a man? Or a woman, for that matter. It's degrading, makes you look like a dimwit, and nothing good ever comes of it except a long headache.

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

@BlueMetalChick: you've apparently been hurt way more than me. i'm sorry.

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Bohemianbrassstrings: Unlike you, I haven't been hurt at all. That's why I'm not stupid. I've never once been rejected, shut down, or hurt by that.