I hate the way people treat me like they think I need 'special handling" because I never know what to say in social situations.

They smile in an over-the-top way and speak slowing acting like they are being reassuring.

They nod their head acting like they are being encouraging.

They act like they think I don't understand what they are saying or need to be guided in answering.

I'm not startled by their questions. I don't need "special handling." And, I don't have social anxiety... I mean, not really.