Im scared because

You'll never know if you don't try.

Cancel therapy and you wont have to find out

Well, if you’re going to therapy, which is a good thing, you already know there are issues.

It really boils down to how hard he’s willing to mature into the role that being a good father requires.

A therapist only knows what they hear, what you tell them. They are only seeing the surface and the 1st layer of a person. You and he knows each other on a deeper level. All it is, is suggestions and advice. No one can live your life for you, no one else has felt your experiences or knows what's really in your heart. You may see a side of him that no one else sees. If you feel that it's worth fighting for then fight! Don't let a therapist, a friend, a relative, anyone tell you what you can and cannot do.. it's up to you.

Or doesn't but I think it might bring out a defense mechanism..did not,lies ,nonsense but better to find out now,right