Why do people ask me if the kid’s father is in their life?

Like do I look like I don’t have a boyfriend or something? Because I want to know 🤔 like am I ugly or something? Do people really think I can’t get men to stick around? I have a man who has stepped up to the plate and taken on two extra kids that aren’t even biologically his. I got so lucky because he enjoys being a father. I see it in him! I don’t go for deadbeats. I don’t go for losers I mean yeah the oldest two their dad’s are stupid but I didn’t know that until it was too late.

Thats common for a lot of single mothers. we didn’t know because guys can pretend! they can act like they are in love and then just out of nowhere pull a fast one on you. Plus some mothers are single because maybe their husband died or maybe they are leaving an abu$ive situation. But people just don’t think about that! people just think oh you sleep around or you can’t keep a man which is so ignorant and hurtful stop assuming that about everybody. Damn! and besides, it’s none of your business about somebody’s situation! And besides, why do you care to know like are you gonna step in and start supporting her kids?

Bottom line is if she has everything all under control, you don’t need to be concerned at all unless you want to start giving her money every week.