I love how people here calm my anxiety down just talking to them

Ohh.... Dont blame your partner for not being able to calm you down. Here on the internet, we all have expressible impact through text where your reading and writing back take a consuming amount of "time" which is the key to having your anxiety to pacify.

Your partner is there ,, a physical being and sees you going through it, and the only help he can offer at that moment is "time".

You'll get over it..🤷‍♂

Sometimes it's not easy to talk to close family or friends, or even your partner, about all things. It can be liberating to talk to a complete stranger, because you don't have to worry about hurting their feelings with what you might say. It can be a good opportunity to vent about stuff you wouldn't talk about with people you know / who know you.

this thing "supposed to" doesn't exist...🤗 hugs