Is it rude for someone to call you randomly to see if you are free to hangout, and if you don't answer and message them an hour later, they say "I had

some spare time, that's why I called. I might be free tomorrow, I'll let you know."

How about you just organise your life and book in time when you're free, not try your luck whenever.

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WandererTony · 56-60, M

Not rude at all. Its a fast life now and people reach out when they have spare time. They wont mind if you dont have time now. They know that it can happen only when both have spare time at the same time.

And inclination too, of course. 😊