Is it rude for someone to call you randomly to see if you are free to hangout, and if you don't answer and message them an hour later, they say "I had

some spare time, that's why I called. I might be free tomorrow, I'll let you know."

How about you just organise your life and book in time when you're free, not try your luck whenever.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Nope not rude, just some spur of the moment free time they thought would be nice to spend with you.

I learned long ago that I’m not the center of anyone’s universe and take situations like this very much in stride. Makes relationships go a whole lot smoother.