Is it rude for someone to call you randomly to see if you are free to hangout, and if you don't answer and message them an hour later, they say "I had

some spare time, that's why I called. I might be free tomorrow, I'll let you know."

How about you just organise your life and book in time when you're free, not try your luck whenever.

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itsok · 31-35, F

It wouldn’t bother me. If someone wants to guarantee time with me, it is necessary to plan things in advance, but if there are some last minute plans it doesn’t bother me to be invited.