Is it rude for someone to call you randomly to see if you are free to hangout, and if you don't answer and message them an hour later, they say "I had

some spare time, that's why I called. I might be free tomorrow, I'll let you know."

How about you just organise your life and book in time when you're free, not try your luck whenever.

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Lackwittyname · M

I do not think it is rude, just a spur of the moment thing. Not like the person was hostile about you not hanging out, just was checking in the moment. Maybe the person does plan or just goes on a whim, but it is not really rude to check with someone.