MY BODY MY INTENTIONS!
My clothes DO NOT set my intentions! My voice does!
I was recently verbally and sexually harassed AGAIN. Yes, again. It’s happened more then I care to discuss. But I quickly caught myself explaining what I was wearing as “proof” I wasn’t dressed in a certain way to attract sexual attention and defending myself from being accused of “asking for it”.
Because FAR TO OFTEN us women have been asked, “What we’re you wearing?”, “Where were you at?”, “We’re you flirting with them?”, or my favorite “But did they hurt you?”…. I have been guilty of asking some of these to women who were harassed because this is the way EVERYONE talked to me when I shared my stories. I would quickly correct myself and say things like I’m sorry I said that it shouldn’t matter what you were wearing or where you were.
We as women and even men should be able to go to the store, night club, gym, concert, or work without the weight of the world looming over them that their shirt might be “asking for it”.
WE WILL SET OUR INTENTIONS ABOUT OUR BODY! MY BODY MY INTENTIONS! WHEN, WHERE, HOW, and WHY ARE UP TO ME AND MY INTENTIONS WILL BE SET VERBALLY AND WITHOUT APOLOGY!
AND FINALLY EVEN IF I DECIDE TO BE WITH SOMEONE I WANT TO BE , NOBODY SHOULD HAVE A SAY IN MY CHOICE.
I was recently verbally and sexually harassed AGAIN. Yes, again. It’s happened more then I care to discuss. But I quickly caught myself explaining what I was wearing as “proof” I wasn’t dressed in a certain way to attract sexual attention and defending myself from being accused of “asking for it”.
Because FAR TO OFTEN us women have been asked, “What we’re you wearing?”, “Where were you at?”, “We’re you flirting with them?”, or my favorite “But did they hurt you?”…. I have been guilty of asking some of these to women who were harassed because this is the way EVERYONE talked to me when I shared my stories. I would quickly correct myself and say things like I’m sorry I said that it shouldn’t matter what you were wearing or where you were.
We as women and even men should be able to go to the store, night club, gym, concert, or work without the weight of the world looming over them that their shirt might be “asking for it”.
WE WILL SET OUR INTENTIONS ABOUT OUR BODY! MY BODY MY INTENTIONS! WHEN, WHERE, HOW, and WHY ARE UP TO ME AND MY INTENTIONS WILL BE SET VERBALLY AND WITHOUT APOLOGY!
AND FINALLY EVEN IF I DECIDE TO BE WITH SOMEONE I WANT TO BE , NOBODY SHOULD HAVE A SAY IN MY CHOICE.