I reckon it’s an an uphill task to get over miseries.

I don't know that we ever truly get over or let go. Nostalgia can hold me hostage for a couple days just out of the blue and I have to feel it for what it is. However, we must decide whether we want to live as the victim or heroine of the situation(s) we were dealt. It's a perpetual cycle of hurting and healing. Being realistic vs overly cynical or positive and honoring our feelings.🌺