@CodyCode ah I see

@Myzery Thank you. For being heard. Looking at them now. Never. = NEVER. Heard of them. Till now.

Gracias

@SW-User My thoughts as well. Started pondering the squeak of a brass hinge as it swung a glass door shut however.

Felix is eccentric by design.

@Myzery yikes good luck

@SW-User Thanks.

@SW-User A business flyer for old flame's dad's business. Bit of a slap in the face is all. Would prefer not to have that randomly appear and see her face via his...not to sound dramatic

Thing on the wall was something random I saw in a shop that made me think of said person that has been bugging me for many years. After a few moments deliberation I had the idea: to buy it and hang it on the wall as my own kind of aversion therapy, because F**k You, Closure [I'll never get it anyway and I have come to accept that].*

Good thing too, because this actually pre-empted getting the other thing through the letterbox which was entirely out of my control. Isn't it weird how life does that? Seeing her long gone face in her dad's and actually almost laughing at the sheer F**k You level of coincidence from life sometimes. Oh life, never change.

So in short...my aversion therapy was for the best and was not unhealthy. It was the right call.

✌️

*This is oversimplifying it. I do and I don't It is too much to explain and I can't be arsed. Not worth the effort necessary to explain it. It's relatively fine and is working out nicely.

@SW-User I never would have solved that. 😬

But that’s a brilliant way to get over someone. Is it ever going to come down?

@SW-User Nah. Not too concerned with it tbh. I kinda like it now anyway - on its own merits. :)

[Thanks]

@SW-User what do I give a pass on? Or not give any passes.

@Thedoorislocked It's hard to say...just stay vigilant..if something seems off ..it is

@SW-User it seemed. I investigated and had confirmed. It took a few years . I hoped they’d change. I tried to be what they wanted but it got worse. The things that were said about me when I left the room. I finally lost it a couple weeks ago with them. I never said what I knew.

@WaryWitchWandering I'm sorry ...reflection on what we can do to improve things in our lives can be helpful

These things all take time ..be patient and kind to yourself

@SW-User you too ❤️

@scorpiolovedeep true