Why is it so hard to have friends who don't just abandon you the minute you have a rough time?

There have been many times when I have looked around me and thought, wow, I have a really good support network....but it's not real. People are all talk it seems.

Maybe I just don't know what people want 🤷‍♀️ Just the good bits, it seems.

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SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

Of course anyone prefers the good bits. Without a doubt.

To abandon a friendship, I don't think it would be for no reason,especially when the times get rough.

There has to be a reason which would make me worry rather than wonder....

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@SledgeHammer I guess my use was limited.

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

@KuroNeko it's easier to come up with answers like that because we're upset for not been given a reason.
I can understand that.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@SledgeHammer Easy when you give what you can in relationships. It's a very educated guess, believe me.