Why is it so hard to have friends who don't just abandon you the minute you have a rough time?

There have been many times when I have looked around me and thought, wow, I have a really good support network....but it's not real. People are all talk it seems.

Maybe I just don't know what people want 🤷‍♀️ Just the good bits, it seems.

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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Real friends are hard to find in general. I must be God because I only exist when people want something.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@PaleandPolluted I feel that

SinlessOnslaught · M

@PaleandPolluted I only contact you when I want to eat your carrot.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@KuroNeko true friends also acknowledge achievements and are happy about others success. Another thing that's hard to come by.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@PaleandPolluted Some only seem to want you to achieve the things that THEY encouraged you to achieve, so that they can take credit.