Not really, except by the grandparents. My parents were not that physically demonstrative. I knew they loved me, but they never “fussed”. I loved visiting my grandmother, she’d scoop me up into her arms and had the kindest voice. If I close my eyes and focus, I can still hear it, musical tones with a slight French accent. She’s been gone 36 years now. 😔
bijouxbroussard · F
Thanks for BC ! 😃

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@bijouxbroussard I like the story about your grandmother.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
I remember very clearly, my mother holding my hand at the bus stop once and stroking my arm when I was upset. I realise now that I remember these times so clearly because they happened so rarely. I was pretty starved of affection from her. I did get a little more from my dad and my grandparents..but theres something different about a mothers affection that's hard to replace.
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
I think everyone feels loved as a child...but that's also when we're learning what love is.
If we're screamed at, we think that's love
If we're nurtured, we think that's love
If we're ignored, we think that's love
If we're screamed at, we think that's love
If we're nurtured, we think that's love
If we're ignored, we think that's love
BlueVeins · 22-25
I received a lot of love as a child but to be honest, it was wasted.
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easterniowegin · 51-55, M
I have bad feelings from being a kid. I was born 7 months after my parents married. I often wonder if there was resentment of me.
My grandparents helped raise me, since my parents seemed very selfish.
My grandparents helped raise me, since my parents seemed very selfish.
Thankfully, yes.
And also a bit overprotected (most of the times)
But I have a happy childhood so I’m thankful.
And also a bit overprotected (most of the times)
But I have a happy childhood so I’m thankful.
CozyCardigan · 51-55, M
yes, even if my parents were very strict and punished me a lot. it was done always with love..

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Yes very much I was always happy and loved and welcomed ..now not so much ..but its my fault ..I let my parents down and I hide from them
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Not after the age of 5. All love in my life stopped then never to return.
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
No. Definitely not.

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@Paintedfox 🤗
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Yes...i had a wonderful childhood. X
kodiac · 22-25, M
No foster care discourages love.
Before adolescence: yes.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Sometimes.
Dusty101 · F
Very much! 🤗
TheCatBites · 26-30, F
Sometimes
AlyAngel · F
Nope
BlondilyOld · F
No
FurryFace · 61-69, M
kinda
curiosi · 61-69, F
I was told since I could remember that I was a worthless sack of shit that was so ugly no one would ever want me. There was more but that one really stands out.
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
@curiosi the 50s saw one of the biggest upswings in creature comforts in history. It created a lot of entitled kids.
A huge shift from the mentality of the Depression Era kids.
A huge shift from the mentality of the Depression Era kids.
curiosi · 61-69, F
@AnonymouslyYours I remember telling teachers and they would say "No one could be that bad". Even now as an adult people will say "But they are your parents!". I was so abused I often wonder how that poor child survived.
That's one of the worst feelings: turning to adults you trust for their help and not being believed.@curiosi
Sepia · 36-40, F
I'm a bit childish so yezz
PhoenixPhail · M
Nope. Not one damn bit. And I wasn't.