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AFamiliarExistence · 26-30, M
Both usualy . Been able to cut people off easily all my life but sometimes people leave a lasting effect.

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I’ll never forget Any of my ex’s or former lover. Even if it ended on bad terms they’ll always have a special place in my heart.
I’ll never forget why we went different ways but I also can’t help but remember the good times.

Everyone’s the way they are for a reason at any time in their lives.
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I cut people off quick. What is the saying "... fool me twice shame on me"...?
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@DreamyCrush I do it more quickly now these days than I used too...Too many chances given that were taken advantage of and blown.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
I've learned to cut folk off
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
I hold on to them memories and at any second can take myself right back to a moment and remember exactly how it made me feel. Its a blessing and a curse at the same time.
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@Beautywithin it's more of a curse for me :/
JupiterDreams · 31-35
I can cut people out easily because it usually concerns them having been nasty/disresprectful one too many times. But I have a hard time forgetting the bad memories and getting irked by them.
xRedx · M
I don't dwell on the past and get emotional. I mean sure I'll remember the good times but until some extent. It's better to leave everything in the past, where it belongs.
SW-User
Not easy, I just decide to move on at some point. The memories stay.
SW-User
That's right.@Gelartsyyy It's gonna be that way till the last breath.
But life can be beautiful, so I'll just dust myself off and won't give a fuck!
You're still young. Hopefully, in time you'll devise mechanisms to aid you in coping.
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@SW-User [quote]life can be beautiful, so I'll just dust myself off and won't give a fuck![/quote] I think I'm gonna make a quote out of this to use for my yearbook, if you don't mind 😂
SW-User
😂@Gelartsyyy Be my guest.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Some memories you just can never forget. Both good and bad.
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@DeWayfarer unfortunately 😬
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Gelartsyyy Agreed on the bad ones. 😒
Once you realize someone is total shit then you dont think twice about ditching them
xixgun · M
The people in my life who have been cut off, did the cutting (or they died).
SW-User
Sometimes self preservation is a must ..I've cut people off and moved on pretty quickly
UpForItNow · 22-25, F
Used to hang on then I realised it was only my vanity for my own determination.
They forgotten the next day
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@Nunlover even if they're nuns?
@Gelartsyyy nuns are people too ,theres always another around the corner
indyjoe · 56-60, M
It depends on the people and why I cut them off...
Like a light switch. Bye.
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
SW-User
Easier now, but memories linger
SW-User
I’m finding it easier and easier
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Why would I block my own past just because some people were dickheads? I'll remember them.
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst some do it to avoid getting hurt by the memories.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Gelartsyyy Well I am already hurt by it. Cant do more harm.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
There are some that truly were not that significant but I even remember them. The sign infant ones stick with me. Some in deeper ways than others. I definitely see it mostly as a curse because there are those who I would rather just forget.
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
@JaggedLittlePill unfortunately we just have to live with it and hope that better memories will at least make up for the bad ones.

 
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