Is it hard for you to talk to strangers?

I want to meet people in person maybe even find a girl but its difficult to talk to people in person. I dont have social anxiety but it seems whenever I or someone else tries to strike up a conversation, we are met with either silence or a series of weird looks and obvious body language that they're extremely uncomfortable

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ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M

It's the sort of thing were the more you worry about it the more un-natural you come across. Like a self fulfilling prophesy almost. You worry you'll fail and that worry causes you to fail. I don't know how you'd arrange for it to happen exactly but the best connections will probably occur 100% naturally when you aren't even trying to make a connection.