Is it hard for you to talk to strangers?

I want to meet people in person maybe even find a girl but its difficult to talk to people in person. I dont have social anxiety but it seems whenever I or someone else tries to strike up a conversation, we are met with either silence or a series of weird looks and obvious body language that they're extremely uncomfortable

Top | Newest First | Oldest First

ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M

It's the sort of thing were the more you worry about it the more un-natural you come across. Like a self fulfilling prophesy almost. You worry you'll fail and that worry causes you to fail. I don't know how you'd arrange for it to happen exactly but the best connections will probably occur 100% naturally when you aren't even trying to make a connection.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

no i like talking to people. I find it hard to make friends with them, its hard to find someone in interested in other peoples lives.

CuddleFeesh · 31-35, M

@Girlyfriendcollecting that's kinda what I mean. People dont wanna chat in person. Not in our age group anyway

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@CuddleFeesh yea I prefer talking on person. it is hard to find people that like talking in person.

Peaceful · F

Nope. Strangers talk to me all the time. And I'm fine starting a convo with them, too.

CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F

Strangely not usually, because I very rarely talk about important things.

SW-User

We both live in Nashville

CuddleFeesh · 31-35, M

@SW-User yes we do

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

DDonde · 31-35, M

Yes, very.

Add a comment...