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SW-User
If they do not have the courtesy to tell me why they broke it, on their own, I may or may not ask them...
If there is a good reason, well and good.
If they just waffle around, their word becomes useless to me.
If there is a good reason, well and good.
If they just waffle around, their word becomes useless to me.
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
@SW-User Okay so let's say for example that they broke that promise and they don't state the reason why, nor do they try to make up for it.
That'd be odd wouldn't it?
Wouldn't it come off very negative regardless of what reason there is to it?
That'd be odd wouldn't it?
Wouldn't it come off very negative regardless of what reason there is to it?

SW-User
@Demspritezyo To me yes. Because it tells me they don't give it the kind of weight I do. They promise without thought. And that is fickle and I will lose trust in their word.
The reason only becomes valid if they choose to share. Sometimes circumstances happen and promises need to break.
The reason only becomes valid if they choose to share. Sometimes circumstances happen and promises need to break.
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
@SW-User Spot on, couldn't have said it any better really.

SW-User
@Demspritezyo :) Not sure if you saw the last bit I appended with an edit.
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
@SW-User Ah- my bad! I didn't see it until you just mentioned it.
I totally agree with you, because if they at least share the reason you can try to understand it from their point of view.
At least it is what I'd do. 😁
I totally agree with you, because if they at least share the reason you can try to understand it from their point of view.
At least it is what I'd do. 😁

SW-User
@Demspritezyo Haha, same. I allow for people to be human. 😂
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
@SW-User You're doing the right thing then!
You must be a good person at heart! 😁
You must be a good person at heart! 😁

SW-User
@Demspritezyo I'd like to think so. :)
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
@SW-User You should be more confident in yourself then, you've already got the right mindset after all! 😄

SW-User
@Demspritezyo but I am.
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
Haha my bad, it seemed like you might not have been. I suppose I got the wrong idea there for a sec.

SW-User
@Demspritezyo I am quite surprised. Most people think the opposite of what you did.
Demspritezyo · 26-30, M
Haha I suppose I may be a special case then! Hope it didn't come off rude or anything 😅