How do you get back to the dating life?

After nearly 10 years of being with my significant other. We decided it was best to go our separate ways. We are now divorced. My question is....how do I get back into the dating world? What are good dating websites? What are y'alls experience with these websites? Thanks

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Elandra77

I don't. I do not believe I can. I was married a long time (32 years) to one I now know that never loved me. I have far too many trust issues to trust another with my heart. And that may be rather unfair to others but that is how it is. In truth I have forgotten HOW to date. I do love my solitude but I hate the loneliness.

Good luck to you. You are half mt age so it should come easier to you . Just set yourself free and let yourself live a bit.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Elandra77 It is sad and tragic that you let someone control your heart. And your mind is still sad and you are untrusting. I wish you wouldn't let this continue. But you are you. And it is your life. Solitude is fine. I enjoy it so much. The peace of it and all. I also know that my heart is loving and I am willing to love again.

I read your last 3 sentences. And I feel you still have some hope. Your walls are not so high and so enclosed that you can wish others luck in love. And you still know what freedom and living entail.