How do you get back to the dating life?

After nearly 10 years of being with my significant other. We decided it was best to go our separate ways. We are now divorced. My question is....how do I get back into the dating world? What are good dating websites? What are y'alls experience with these websites? Thanks

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Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M

I don’t know you personally... but if I broke up with someone after 10 years... I’d just take a year to explore me!! Me time!! Me vacations... Me shopping!! Kinda find myself and ground myself before stepping into someone else’s drama!

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Spokeskitties75 Another great piece of advice. Me time is always beneficial. You learn a lot about yourself. And sex isn't the most important thing in a new relationship. It is important at some point. You don't want to end up with a dry partner. That is torture.

delissasheart · 31-35, F

@Spokeskitties75 I have been doing that for the past months. I have gotten piercings that I have wanted but was prohibited😑 I am finally getting back to being happy. I have 2 younger boys and I am being more active with them. Its crazy to think how a person could suffercate you for so long and not know it. I don't plan on dating until next year😊

delissasheart · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion I love sex, but I am not looking for that right now. Everyone wants sex but not everyone wants to appreciate the qualities out of sex.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@delissasheart Hey! I got nipple piercings to celebrate. I love them. That was 5 years ago. It has been a learning experience ever since. But mostly wonderful. Freedom has such an awesome taste. When you are not suffocated, as you have said. You will do fine. And you will meet your life partner in time. You have the right kind of attitude! Bravo!

delissasheart · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion I got mine done 2 weeks ago...and I love it! Thank you so much♥️