How do you get back to the dating life?

This is what I suggest. Wait for a period of time after you are divorced. It is a time to grieve and to mourn. I feel for you as I was in a long-term relationship and then I divorced. I first took some time to enjoy my freedom. It was a horrendous marriage too. Then I started looking around. I checked out several websites. I really didn't find anyone suitable. I found either the men were unrealistic in what they wanted ie one wanted love at first sight and another had a hot car-there was no spark between us and another brought me stinking lilies and was very effeminate. I never did find a decent website. I had my eye upon I think it was match.com or the one for people over 50. Then I met my ex-partner on another website. I would think carefully and find a reputable site. Maybe that one where you answer a billion questions and find someone who is similar to you. Harmony? Pursue your hobbies. That is where you will find single, available people. Try something you already enjoy or try something you have always been interested in. I am sure you will find someone as you are young and seem open-minded. Watch out too as many websites are just meat markets with you being the meat! Many people these days seem to think freedom means sex on the first date. That's fine if that is your mentality, but I think that sex on the first date likely means no second date. Keep your standards. Have fun. Be safe. And all the stuff that goes with it like meet in a public place, tell someone where you are going, have a phone buddy, etc. Good luck.