Its time to prove everyone wrong.

So my bf and I are moving in together and on the phone with his mum who isnt happy at all. She is convinved he will not survive and make it on his own and come running back to her. She makes every excuse like oh you need to paint first or do it up before you move in. The home is perfectly fine she just doesnt like it cos its not super posh and up to her standard. Have no idea how im going to deal with this narcissistic woman.

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TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

tell her that, her little man is yours now..

have another one or find another hobby

Clairessa09 · 31-35

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Shes super controlling and calls him to ask him when hes with me what we did 😐can u beleive that. She wants to know where he is and whats he doing. When she calls and he dont answer she asks him why didnt he answer in a rude way.

She told me i mustnt do my busines fulltime and do it partime. I must meet her family before we move in together. So controlling and im flippin 27. I hate it

Acadiaisgone · 22-25, F

@Clairessa09 sounds like this is more of your boyfriends battle. He needs to set boundaries with his mom, and make her understand that you two are starting a life together. There’s not much you can do at this point but encourage him to do that.

Clairessa09 · 31-35

@Acadiaisgone He has done that time and time again but she wont budge. She feels shes entitled to tell him how to live and what to do.

She was telling him on the phone yesterday u know i havent take a single cent from u when u lived with me. I have no idea what that means do u?

Acadiaisgone · 22-25, F

@Clairessa09 probably her way of still trying to get him to stay with her. If you two move in together he has to pay some money. If not, he can stay with his mom for free. It may be time for him to take a short break from his mom... honestly

Clairessa09 · 31-35

@Acadiaisgone lol u telling me that i told him the same thing. She even said im afraid u dont forgot me. She even told me in person nake sure u dont make him forget his family.

Uhm i frankly dont care nd they never cared a damn abt him nd always belittled him and put him down now he found happiness nd they so jealous.