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THE GYM: WHAT IT WAS MEANT TO BE VS WHAT WE’VE TURNED IT INTO

The gym was meant to be a place of discipline.
A place where people went to confront weakness, build strength, and practice consistency.
It was never supposed to be a runway.
It was never meant to be a social club.
It wasn’t designed to be a content studio.
But somewhere along the line, the gym became a stage.
Today, for many people, the gym isn’t about health anymore—it’s about appearance, validation, and social life. People go to be seen, to network, to flirt, to film, to perform fitness rather than practice it. The mirror became more important than the muscle. The camera became more important than the work.
This isn’t to shame anyone. People express themselves differently. But it’s worth asking:
Are we training our bodies—or just curating images of them?
Fitness as Performance
The present generation lives in a world of constant display. Everything is content. Even sweat is staged.
Some people go to the gym to lift.
Others go to the gym to be looked at lifting.
Social media has turned fitness into a spectacle. Bodies become brands. Workouts become reels. Progress becomes angles, lighting, and filters. For many, the gym is less about long-term health and more about short-term attention.
When the Gym Becomes a Social Scene
There’s nothing wrong with community. Humans thrive in shared spaces. But when the gym becomes primarily a social hub, the original purpose gets diluted.
You see it when:
Workouts take 10 minutes, but filming takes 40
People dress for the camera more than the climate of hard work
The goal becomes “being seen” instead of “getting better”
It’s easy to confuse motion with progress. Being present in the gym doesn’t always mean you’re present in the work.
Walking: The Anti-Performance Fitness
This is why early morning walks hit different.
At 4am, there’s no audience.
No cameras.
No validation.
No applause.
Just you, the road, your breath, and your discipline.
Walking doesn’t offer clout. It offers clarity.
It doesn’t impress strangers. It repairs your system.
It doesn’t trend. It transforms.
You can’t fake a two-hour walk. You either did it or you didn’t. There’s no filter for consistency. No aesthetic for discipline.
Real Fitness Is Quiet
The most effective habits are often the least glamorous.
Early morning walks build:
Cardiovascular health
Mental resilience
Emotional regulation
Sustainable fitness you can maintain for decades
No gym membership.
No curated identity.
No performative wellness.
Just movement, day after day.
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
I've never belonged to a gym-club so can't vouch for the narcissism, though it would not surprise me.

However, I do like your advice, starting with the line,

Walking: The Anti-Performance Fitness
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and summarised by:

Just movement, day after day.


That sort of attitude, with fashion driving the wrong priorities, is not confined to gyms, or even sports, though. Two examples:

A former neighbour of ours was a man in his late-twenties or early-thirties, whose own sport was wind-surfing. His wife told me that he was serious about this expensive hobby, and saved a lot of money by buying his wet-suits in end-of season sales. Their prices were lower because next season the fashionable surfers would want the latest colours, not last year's - even though the suits were identical in all other ways!

A friend whose hobby is photography said he met a few amateur photographers whose phototographs were good but never real competition-winners. They were so fashion and gadget conscious that they were forever buying the Very Latest cameras, so never really became true experts with any of them.