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Wife destroying family

As some of you guys know I found out my wife was cheating a while back so we came to the agreement she could have a lady friend instead of getting dicked by one of my buddies. Today is the second day in a row she has been at her lady friends house and she texted me to say she is spending the entire weekend and probably next with her. I don't really mind but my concern is the kids are going to start wondering what is up and if they find out it will affect our family very negatively. Does anyone have any advice on this? I want to protect our perfect little American family of 4. 🇺🇸
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HannahSky · F
You sound pathetic.
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TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@HannahSky what am I supposed to do?
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@HannahSky 🤣
I hate to break it to you, but I'm pretty sure they know, just as well as you know, that perfect little family isn't so perfect. It's probably best for all of you to be honest with yourself and just split ways.
TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@SweetNSassy what makes you think they know?
@TruckerRandy kids are smart.. I'm not saying they know she had an affair but if she isn't home like before they know something is off.
TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@SweetNSassy I guess you're probably right sadly. I just hope her bs excuses work
Psycho · 26-30, M
It's definitely not a perfect little family and you should probably get evidence so you have more rights over keeping the kids or seeing them more often if you have to work.
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SW-User
@Psycho
He gave her permission to have an affair..
He's fucked in court..
TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@SW-User no no I didn't. She fucked off with one of my good friends before any of this. She didn't ask nor did I give her permission to have sex with that man.
SW-User
You made your bed, now someone else is laying in it..
Get a divorce.. it's done.
Or get another job that keeps you home every night and try to rebuild your relationship because that's the only way you're going to salvage your marriage.
I'm surprised you stayed with a cheater. Beyond that, a lady that just walks out the door and doesn't come back and tells you they're not gunna only AFTER they've decided to do so....
And you're her husband, too. I know for a fact I can't deal with someone like that and I believe you don't deserve to be treated like this. Neither do your kids

Tell her to control herself. If she has kids to take care of, she can't be acting so irresponsibly like this.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Tell them she likes women too and got tired of you? I’m out of suggestions.
acpguy · C
Get rid of her and the sooner the better.
SW-User
The real question you should ask yourself at this point is, will you pay more or less in alimony and child support than you do now with your with your household and parental expenses.
TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@SW-User I would be ruined
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
It’s done... there is no protecting something that has been destroyed.
SW-User
Tell them she is bi and has a lady friend.
TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@SW-User I don't want them to think that is appropriate
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
Man, it might be time to cash this one in, as bad as it sucks.
TruckerRandy · 51-55, M
@TheLordOfHell I'll lose nearly everything in a divorce

 
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