is it me or does my friend sound rude?

after a year of so of her asking me to come down she want to act different idk maybe she mad cuz the time she was supposed to come visit me I told her I have a studio and it's not big enough for the both of us.

So when I told her I was coming back down south she want to get smart and be like I hope you have hotel money and I'm only off on weekends. like that's cool but you don't have to be smart about it.

idk maybe she just felt some type of way cuz when she wanted to come up here she couldn't stay with me cuz I have a studio and live with my boo thing

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idzy84 · 36-40, MVIP

A slightly more positive suggestion. A wise man once told me "Never put down to malice what can be explained by ineptitude or incompetence."

Maybe she's recently been in a situation where she's over committed and been burned by it. Maybe she's just started a new job and really needs to focus on that. Maybe she's just trying to manage your expectations, so you're not disappointed. I know i've been in situations where I'm genuinely unable to host someone whom I would otherwise love to have stay with me. Granted I'm a little more tactful than that, but the essence is the same. "I really don't have any extra time in my life for anything at all at this present moment, sorry"
Better than spreading herself too thin then resenting you the whole time.

xcelyg · 22-25, F

she could've approached it differently but it's definitely some animosity there

ZedsLeppelin2 · 61-69, F

You're clearly being CATFISHED.

It never ceases to blow my mind as to how you young adults, as well as the elderly on social media 24/7....STILL haven't figure out that those on social media 24/7, are actually scammers OR they're those who have NO PERSONAL LIVES in their REAL LIVES, thus WHY they're on social media 24/7!!!!

Candypie2010 · 26-30, F

@ZedsLeppelin2 how am I being catfished when we went to school together and face time every day retard

ZedsLeppelin2 · 61-69, F

@Candypie2010 Oops, I used the wrong WORD while expressing my opinion that you are being PLAYED by this person.
Just a heads up, you do realize that it is considered "hate" speech to use the 'R' word.
Where I had to screen shot your post written at 22-25 years old where in "woke" 2019 YOU used the 'R' word on social media.. as PROOF one day when your older, wiser and mature and up for a high profile job, I will HAVE PROOF that you are not qualified for that job.....isn't that how it works now?

SimpleJess · 22-25, F

First off why go down south? Lol secondly if you have a problem with the way she talked to you, why even bother going to see her lol sounds like they're only shall be bad vibes between you guys, better off going to get fried chicken or some Crawfish or whatever you guys eat down there 😁

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