Do you believe in real equality?

I thought I had low self esteem so I pay for dinners when dating, pay my share of weekends away. Etc etc. I thought it was because I felt crappy about myself like I didn't deserve to have stuff bought for me. I just realised its actually because I believe in equality and not because I feel rubbish about myself 😂 I'm such an idiot 😂 - that's just accurate not low self esteem 😂

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wildbill83 · 36-40, M

"equality" is a slippery slope in todays "PC" bullshit society...

people complain when they're treated differently, and when they're treated the same, they complain even more for [i]not[/i] being treated differently...🤔

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@wildbill83 yes. I'm talking nuts and bolts how can a relationship be equal. Money is a simple leveler. If that's even then it's a good start imo.

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

@KaiserSolze it shouldn't have to be based on material things/possessions, etc. It should be about equal effort/contribution in a relationship, which is rare these days.

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@wildbill83 yes that's true but how do you measure that. Money is easy to measure. All equal. Effort and money.