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Mrsbetweenfatandfit it's not feeling obligated. I don't. I let one guy buy me dinner once because he was giant and a biker and I didn't want to argue with him but I didn't feel obliged to do stuff for my food lol and I never saw him again.
It's literally I think why the hell should a man buy a woman stuff. It's not the middle ages. Also I'd feel like I was taking the piss out of the way society works where men feel obligated to pay. I disagree with it on moral grounds.
Women died to get us this far and when we're exploiting that we're shitting on their graves.
That's why I'm like how I am. Not because of feeling obligated because of food but on principle.
And what's more annoying is that I actually thought it was low self because despite all that I bought society BS abou self esteem and female entitlement. We're not entitled. Equal rights for men when going to eat dinner!! 😂