Women my age are looking for rings, not flings. Why do men think women my age have time to play games or waste time?🤷‍♀️

I think when a woman often is pushing to be wed it is often an idea of she is ready to have children and is shopping for a father of her future kids. Not sure if that is what is happening with you, but I can tell you from a guy's perspective that is a huge turn off.

Your word choices of play games and waste time are words a lot of women use to have say they are ready for child bearing.