hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
My wife and I were sitting down for supper one evening when my mother burst through the door. She looked a bit frazzled and she blurted out "I just wrecked my car". I didn't believe her. She obviously had driven to our place. Again she said "I wrecked my car". I just walked two miles to get here from where my car is in the ditch." Then she held up her hand "See I broke my fingers too". That got my attention and I put her in my car and drove her to the hospital. Two miles up the road sat Mom' car. Upside down in the ditch. "Joe stop and shut off the lights in my car", she insisted, I kind of laughed but she was adamant. I crawled in through the small back window the same one she climbed out of and after a bit of searching found the light switch and turned the lights off. We got her to the hospital where they cut off her rings and tried to set the fingers. The fingers were never the same. She started wearing her rings on her other hand. The last time I talked with her was in the dementia ward where she looked at me with a fixed stare and said "I don't know who you are but you sound just like my son Joe". Rest in Peace Mom.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@hippyjoe1955 that’s amazing she walked all that way to your place after being in a car accident. She loved you
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@Jenny1234 Yes she did love me. What amazes me about her accident is she never wore a seat belt but flipped the car end over end landing on its roof. All she got was some broken fingers on her left hand. BTW she got the car repaired and drove it for several years after the accident eventually trading it for a newer car.
beermeplease · M
my mom battled anxiety and depression her entire life. at times it was pretty severe especially around the time we lived in ontario. my mom was a true "momma bear" in that she would do anything to keep her 2 boys safe and not live the life she had while she was growing up....she kept a good home right up until the i admitted her to the hospital where she finally passed.
i won't show a pic because i had an issue with another user here who generated ai images of her trying to get me rattled
i won't show a pic because i had an issue with another user here who generated ai images of her trying to get me rattled
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beermeplease · M
@Jenny1234 that's probably in munich. but they once took me to a bar in hamburg in 1989 or 90 where they actually met...mom was a waitress and dad was a customer there when he was just finishing up his apprenticeship...lol she would tell me stories how he couldn't keep his eyes off of her 🤣... well i'm a pub perv too but still single 🤣
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@beermeplease and what’s the reason for that?
beermeplease · M
@Jenny1234 i should probably take up new hobbies and not think like a 😈and seeking women i shouldn't be with.
Ducky · 31-35, F
My mom’s very stern and can be mean at times. But she was a healthy balance in contrast to my very laidback and easy-going dad.
One thing I’ll never forget that she’s taught me: whenever I’d apologize for making a mistake or something, she would always respond with something along the lines of “Don’t be sorry, just try again!”
It does no good feeling bad about something bad you did, but it does a world of good for everyone if you learn from those things and never repeat those mistakes. Don’t be sorry, be better
I do have a valentine this year, but either my mom or my sister would always be my valentine every year
One thing I’ll never forget that she’s taught me: whenever I’d apologize for making a mistake or something, she would always respond with something along the lines of “Don’t be sorry, just try again!”
It does no good feeling bad about something bad you did, but it does a world of good for everyone if you learn from those things and never repeat those mistakes. Don’t be sorry, be better
I do have a valentine this year, but either my mom or my sister would always be my valentine every year
LavidaRaq · F
Mamapolo2016 · F
It’s weird, but it was important to us. When my mom was close to 90, she couldn’t live alone anymore, and I moved in with her to help.
As time passed, she became incontinent, and it so offended her dignity that she was miserable. I assured her it was okay, that I had cared for my husband the same way, and, after all, she had changed my diapers. Fair was fair. But it still bothered her greatly.
One day after an accident, she began to weep, heart-brokenly, and said, “Honey, you shouldn’t have to go through this. Nobody should.”
Allow me to insert here that I don’t think I had ever uttered a curse word of any kind in front of my mother.
But then I said, “Well, it’s a sh**ty job, but somebody has to do it.” I had shocked myself. I anticipated a slap, maybe. Her head came up, still wet with tears, she stared at me, and then she began to laugh. So did I. Big, hearty guffaws. Good, soul-cleansing laughing.
That one moment brought us closer than we had ever been. She stopped crying about things she couldn’t control. We talked more, like two adult women, not mother and child.
She lived three more years, and I am so glad I had that time with her.
As time passed, she became incontinent, and it so offended her dignity that she was miserable. I assured her it was okay, that I had cared for my husband the same way, and, after all, she had changed my diapers. Fair was fair. But it still bothered her greatly.
One day after an accident, she began to weep, heart-brokenly, and said, “Honey, you shouldn’t have to go through this. Nobody should.”
Allow me to insert here that I don’t think I had ever uttered a curse word of any kind in front of my mother.
But then I said, “Well, it’s a sh**ty job, but somebody has to do it.” I had shocked myself. I anticipated a slap, maybe. Her head came up, still wet with tears, she stared at me, and then she began to laugh. So did I. Big, hearty guffaws. Good, soul-cleansing laughing.
That one moment brought us closer than we had ever been. She stopped crying about things she couldn’t control. We talked more, like two adult women, not mother and child.
She lived three more years, and I am so glad I had that time with her.
MellyMel22 · F
A silly memory together.. My mom and I have a prob going anywhere that you’re supposed to be really quiet in. Like when we went to my daughter’s honor’s society induction. She kept looking at me with her eyes wide open when this lady was yelling on the microphone and we tried not to laugh, but then I saw an older woman in front of us jumping each time the lady on the mic went louder and I looked at my mom and gave her the look to see what was happening and after a while of us stopping looking at each other cause we knew what was gonna happen, she busted out laughing when I tried to turn away from her and then I did and everyone was looking at us and we started laughing more 🤣
This is us after we ate out one day.
This is us after we ate out one day.
beermeplease · M
@MellyMel22 nice pic... mom could be your sister...tell her i said that
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@MellyMel22 sounds like you have a wonderful relationship
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Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Yes, that's so true, my Mom is still the true unconditional love of my life. She is my angel. I spoke with her a few hours ago.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@Donotfolowme you’re lucky to have her
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Jenny1234 Yes, thanks, I sure am. I really count on her. May God bless her with a longer and healthier life.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@ScreamingFox a nice memory to hold onto















