It’s my own fault

I was desperate for a friend and ignored his manipulative, shitty behavior. Then I befriended his friends who were also shitty. And now I feel I’ve become shitty myself. I enabled myself to be controlled and now that I’ve had enough, now that I’d rather be alone than a fake, he won’t leave me alone. Multiple long texts a day, which I never open, then he shows up at my house…

Wtf have I done?

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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Shit. You haven't done anything.

But if he shows up again. That will be time to file a police report and get some security if you don't have it already.

Make it clear: Do not come back here or you will be dealing with law enforcement.

BrokenAbyss

@JaggedLittlePill I wanted people to like me so bad. My parents died and I was so lonely, but I truly should of done better. I should of been stronger and used that time to make better connections. Instead of taking whatever. So I do feel it’s mostly my fault. I picked up the snake knowing what it was and I got bit.

I will call the police if he shows up uninvited again. It’s really starting to scare me.

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond.

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

Just do a reset and look for new people who are friendly and mean no harm

BrokenAbyss

@Justenjoyit Thank you. I don’t know if I can try again. I’m afraid I’ll make the same mistake thinking I’m being kind and accepting and end up in more pain. I like when I am alone. At least this make sense and I enjoy my hobbies.

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