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I am embarrassed guys lol

So basically I was going to meet this guy who my sister knew as a child. I told her let me speak to him because he would be considered family to me as well. Mind you I think he had other intentions when he came to see me. When we met, we just spoke about our past and how our lives are going , . I noticed he was sending hearts and very talkative in text. I think he probably thought he was going to like me but it changed when he seen me in person. Which was pretty awkward he really didn’t talk much , my sister later said we would be cute together and I said no lol but he said I was not his type and he sees me as a sister which I believe he didn’t want to hurt my feelings .. boy did I want to put my head under a rock when my sister told me what he said..the whole thing was awkward. He was real sweet though but it kinda made me even more insecure . My sister says stay friends and see where it goes.. I told her heck no .. if he didn’t like me now what would make him change his mind later. I know my self worth and I don’t think any female should do That lol .. I’ll take the friendship which is what I wanted to do at first , I won’t ever consider going to a guy who says I’m not for him or got too much going on that’s fine
perceptivei · 36-40, F
Same.

Screw that. I want a man who wants me. I could see a man waiting on a girl to come around but not vice versa.

Don't let it get you down. He doesn't sound like anyone I'd be attracted to. I can't stand people who actually say those words - "S/he isn't my type." 🙄🙄🙄 Grow up.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@VampireOfDesire Rejection isn't fun regardless of how it's said. Personally, I don't like that response, and it makes me realize the person is very shallow as well.

"I'm open to friendship."

"I'm not interested in anything more than friendship right now."

I don't know. Depends on the situation.
Helfreclb · 26-30, F
@perceptivei luckily he didn’t say it to me but I tell you his energy sure screamed it lmaooo it’s okay in this life what can you expect
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@Helfreclb Well, you're young. You have time to feel better about yourself and find someone you're interested in.
Mardrae · F
You’re smart. At least the guy was nice enough to explain that you weren’t his type. Most guys just ghost you. That’s what they do to me anyway. And that’s after they act interested.
Helfreclb · 26-30, F
@Mardrae he actually told my sister that , then she told me and I was so embarrassed lol . I think it was my weight gain he seen old photos of me but at least I know now
Mardrae · F
@Helfreclb probably so, but there are lots of guys who like large women.
Helfreclb · 26-30, F
@Mardrae yes that is true

 
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