How long does it generally take for you to stop hurting about being hurt?

Everyone is different. Everyone experiences loss different. My first ex husband was a very short marriage ( 3 years) but he ripped my heart out. I was young. Only 18 when I married him. There will still be times when I think of him and get sad but the pain is WAY less. Another love that was killed in a wreck. It's been a lot of years. Pain is less
But it still surfaces. It probably always will pop up occasionally but it's something I can manage..think about. Cry a bit and then think about what good times I can and smile and move on

depends on how invested you are, for me atleast

It depends on how emotionally invested I was in the relationship. It'a gone from a couple of weeks to over a year.

There are different levels of hurt. I may be able to function after a few days or weeks, but the last part can take years for sure and probably decades.

It really depends on the relationship. Usually anywhere from six months to a year and a half or so. 🤔

Took me years 🫤

Years. Last time I cried over my ex was last year and we ended things about 5 years ago.

Ideally, no relation is permanent enough to sustain forever coz life itself is Not forever.

🤔 The only time that it really hurt, was years for it to stop...

Short term a few days maybe a week

Long term it’ll be a while could take years

Years. Two months is nothing

I think it takes three years..

Forever.

Everyone gets over things in their own time. I think it’s worse because this guy was such a dick with the cheating.

You didn’t deserve that, any of it. I hope you get past it soon because he doesn’t deserve to have anymore space in your head.