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My Daughters quest for learning shot down

I'm not one to vent online, I don't really see the point most of the time. But I just found out something that really sent me off the deep end. My oldest daughter is 16 and a junior in high school. She had signed up for auto shop this year, not because she wanted to follow me into the car business but because she wanted to be able to wrench on her own vehicle. It was her idea, not mine and I'm incredibly proud of her for thinking ahead. It was something that we had talked about last summer and as far as I knew everything was hunky dory. I stress self-reliance to my kids and expect them to learn how to deal with problems on their own. Now to put all this in perspective it's important to know that my daughter is very quiet and shy, but very independent and doesn't mind getting her hands dirty. But that being said, if something in her life goes sideways it's usually quite a while before she bothers to tell anyone.
So, with that said I just found out a few days ago that the school wouldn't allow her to take auto shop because "it's not for girls". Instead, they pushed her into a childcare class vocational class that she hates. It would have been great if she had said something sooner! So, we complained to the school enough that they "might be able to fit her in next year". In the meantime, I reminded her that we own a fully equipped shop and she's welcome in there any time she wants.

Has anyone else been through this kind of thing?
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just curious, are you in a red state and/or red county?
sgoodroe · 51-55, M
@ThirstenHowl Red? no idea what that means
@sgoodroe Republican
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@sgoodroe ok, what state is it then?
sgoodroe · 51-55, M
@ThirstenHowl Vermont
@sgoodroe the school is literally violating federal law (Title IX), you should let them know this and file a complaint at every level (though I'm not sure how much it matters to file it at the federal level right now, under the Trump administration, which is trying to abolish the US Dept of Education ... see, you can't really avoid / ignore / escape "political crap" even if you want to, everything is literally political in some way)

Federal Level (Primary): The U.S. Department of Education Office for Civil Rights (OCR) is responsible for enforcing Title IX. Complaints can be submitted through their online form.

School District Level: Contact your local high school's Title IX Coordinator directly to initiate a formal grievance process.

State Level: Report to the state Department of Education or state civil rights commission.

I'm curious if this is Franklin or Essex counties, which seem to be the most Republican-leaning counties in VT ... and this kind of backward reality denial is most typical of Republicans / conservatives, so I'm surprised to see it occurring in VT at all