How would you handle this situation?

In my dance school I usually bake cupcakes for one of the dancers on their birthday and share them with the class. They usually go down well but one parent told me that her daughter us in a healthy eating plan and can't have the extra sugar or fat. I completely understand the parent's choice and the need to manage her daughter's weight (that's why she's in the class) but she should really explain to her daughter why she can't come to take a cupcake instead of me needing to tell her daughter 😔 has anyone managed a similar situation in the past? I don't think it would be fair for me to stop making cupcakes for the other dancers because of one girl especially when they all practice so hard

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LadyGrace ·

Perhaps you could find a gift item which does not involve eating. That might help. Or perhaps you could find a recipe that is not fattening. I think what you're doing is wonderful and so very thoughtful and sweet. I understand where that other lady is coming from as well and I know you do too. But you're right. She should be the one to tell her daughter and it doesn't seem fair that she's left out when all the others are eating in front of her so that's why I suggested finding a non-editable gift idea.

Soph03 · 18-21, F

@LadyGrace that could be an idea. Maybe an activity to celebrate someone's birthday as opposed to eating. I'll have to think about that which is the best option. Thank you!