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I think we should be more transparent with kids

Yesterday, my 7-year-old ask my wife why she needs to go to school when you can look up everything on Google. The answer was "what if you don't have a computer?" The problem is, that isn't the real reason! The real reason is too abstract.

Ever since the 70s, kids have been asking why they have to learn math when it all can be done on a calculator; I'm pretty sure I was among them. The reason I was presented with were things like "what if the battery runs flat?" or "what if you don't have a calculator?" Again, not the real reason!

The real reason is that learning these things just makes brains think better. The explanation that my wife gave was even worse than the calculator deprecation: in my line of work, I don't get very far without a computer that has Internet. Now one thing Google was able to do was tell me how much money Pablo Escobar had at the height of his wealth and then what the population of Colombia was in the 1980s. Now what Google couldn't tell me was that Escobar could have given away 1000$ to each and every Colombian and still be a billionaire! But because I went to school, I was able to figure that out from what Google was able to tell me.

So I think we should try to find truthful ways in which we can explain to them why education is so important in ways that are not too abstract for them. Maybe they wouldn't find 20c narcos so concrete though.

(School also helped me to think critically, which is why further Google searches revealed that 1000$ may have been too optimistic. He would have been safer giving 500$ to everyone.)
I have mixed feelings...

My parents were very open and transparent with me about things. Very honest about things.

I think it deprived me of a childhood and caused me to grow up too early.

But I have no kids so no real stake. Just my own memories.
@CopperCicada I wouldn't describe my feelings as "mixed" but I would say that you have to find the happy medium between being honest w/kids and not scaring them unnecessarily. Like w/stuff they can't do anything about.
black4white · 56-60, M
school for learning some things but a lot of critical thinking is gained yet most dont realize it when you are figuring out that math problem. excellent point
REMsleep · 41-45, F
I agree. I have told all of my family this exact thing. Now I also think that some parents go too far exposing their kids to everything in childhood and not everything needs to be done and seen as a child but finding an age appropiate way to explain everything is possible.
Very true. Early education also introduces us to different aspects of life (art, Science, Math, Geography etc.,) so that we can explore our talent and understand our potential/skill set….so that we can decide what to do with our life. It also makes us literate, and broad-minded in a sense. Without it, we would be lost.
SW-User
Agreed. That kind of thing has always been my problem with “because I said so” answers. Sure, kids need to learn to follow rules, but kids, especially older ones, can be reasoned with. An informative, practical explanation doesn’t hurt.
ABCDEF7 · M
Being a software developer, my answer would be, who will develop the calculators, other informative applications and google?
@ABCDEF7 Yeah, that's a pretty good one. And as much as I'd like her to follow in my footsteps, I'd have to be prepared for her saying "someone else".
ABCDEF7 · M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP If everyone have this argument, there would not be any "someone else" then.

There is a proverb in Sanskrit, meaning, "The knowledge written in books, and money given to someone else, is of no use in the need of hour". Whether it's written in books or at internet/app, they can be considered same.

You can ask her, if you can't contribute in the production process, you are going to earn your living. "What contribution you would like to give ?"
ABCDEF7 · M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP And what will you do if Google start charging money for every question you ask. Where will you get so much money to answer?
Convivial · 26-30, F
I think the answer your looking for is the development of critical thinking skills... The ability to smell when something is fishy
The Harvey Mudd College is supposed to be fantastic about telling engineering students *why* they need each course; i.e., what the purpose of course 'x' is in tje scheme of their engineering knowledge acquisition.
@SomeMichGuy the first year of my B.Eng was pretty frustrating for that sort of thing. So was the 2nd sometimes. On the other hand, when did I ever learn something in university that I used in the work force? 🤔
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Hmmmm...I've had a very different experience.
Education is one profession where you better forget effective measures and do traditional, popular things!
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
Google isn’t too useful if you can’t even read, or spell or comprehend
JohnnySpot · 56-60, M
They located him with tracking devices planted in ether barrels.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
So, be more open, but not abtractly?
Interesting.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Some people are. And some kids catch on fast.

 
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