I don't know how to feel about this

This guy tells other people that I'm going places I told him I'm not. He was telling a guy I was going to a concert with them that I already said I wasn't going to. Friday night a friend called and said he told her I was at the bar with them when I was.really at home. It's weirding me out.

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Elisbch · M

I have to agree with @revenant on this one. This is a form of control. And like @revenant said, this kind of behavior can get them doubting themselves and it can also cause confusion with your other friends or coworkers. It could/can be a way of taking control and diminishing your credibility. I have seen some narcissists display these kinds of behaviors.
[i]Personally, [u]myself[/u] [/i], I would stay clear of this person and set up some strong healthy boundaries.
Good luck 🙂

Nebula · 41-45, F

@Elisbch thanks, I'm a magnet for those types.

Elisbch · M

I can understand that. I used to be the same way. Fortunately or maybe unfortunately I stayed with one way too long. That cured me. Take care of [i]you[/i] because they'll turn your life into chaos Just for kicks. @Nebula

Nebula · 41-45, F

@Elisbch yeah, that's why I've been single for like 8 years

Elisbch · M

Your radar is already on then, listen to your instincts. 🙂👍🏻.. @Nebula