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I Have a Temper

I am pretty easy going. It takes a lot to make me mad but once my buttons are pushed, watch out.

Do you have phrases you use that tells the other person you mean business? I do.

If someone is getting close to crossing a line with me, I let them know I don't agree, respectfully.

If the person continues to push my buttons, I will start out with "Here's the deal" meaning I am getting upset.

If the person still continues to cross the line, they get a bullet pointed message outlining exactly why I am mad.

After that, there is no second chance. If I am really angry, there will be silence. That is the calm before the storm and all h**l breaks loose.

It is not pretty and I don't like to get that mad. My family knew when to push and when to stop. If I get so upset to use the Fu** word, the house empties.

You can't take anger or nasty words back so I try to watch what I let loose.
lasergraph
Humans are funny creatures, funny strange not funny haha. We have emotions and expressions animals don't have. Animals don't feel guilt for example, or remorse and I am not sure what forms of love they actually feel. Anyway, I have always been easy going and it takes an eternity to make me made (maybe longer). But as the number of birthdays increase the more I realize trivial things aren't important. Time is too short and I have things still I want to do. Words still need to be written. Anger is too time consuming.
akindheart · 61-69, F
we are all in that battle.
lasergraph
Those are the first 4 lines of a poem. posted here and set for the book. Internal struggles are part of life. Some we win, some we lose and some just keep going. No one knows what is seething underneath someone else, and most are too busy with their own battles to care.
Dreampoet
Very true. I think that is an Enigma we all face.
mrfixitman
It also takes a while to get me riled. But I guess i do not have phrases that are going to be used like you do. I do not think fast enough for that. And, actually it has been quite a while since I have been really mad, and no one was around at the time anyway so no one knew!
akindheart · 61-69, F
your anger is the best. it is not directed at anyone!
RedEyesBlackDragon
Hi,Miss Kind Heart, i can relate to what you are saying because there are people who don't know when to stop pushing and so you need to put your foot down for sure. You are only human and you do have limits on how much bull you can take from idiots out there.
akindheart · 61-69, F
That is the truth...some you can let go, sometimes you have to lower the boom.
dfries63
I can usually control it or walk away before I explode and it takes a lot
When I do I speak my mind but I'm not ever violent
dfries63
I understand what you mean
Some people really know how to push your buttons
akindheart · 61-69, F
and they do it with glee...
dfries63
I've noticed that
GJOFJ3
I think I should learn how to use your warning system.
I just go from calm to nuclear! Only thing in my favor is the storm is always short lived
akindheart · 61-69, F
But the damage is done unfortunately. It happens to me when i get tired
expressomarkie
Smiles......
I too, am like that....takes a lot to fire me up....but when I go.. Watch out!!!!!!
expressomarkie
I have a calm exterior....
I try not to let things get me
..but...when the beast does come out of the box....very difficult to put it away again...
akindheart · 61-69, F
that is funny.
akindheart · 61-69, F
i know exactly what you mean..
bowman81
Hehehe...Here's the deal! I like it ;-).......me? I often go right to Fu** LOL....
akindheart · 61-69, F
my "here's the deal" is the prelude to the bad words...LOL

 
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