Huge pet peeve

If Im going somewhere and I tell you that you can come along if youd like, do not ask "Do you want me to come?" .....Tf was the point of me saying "You can come if you want to"??? If i didnt want you to come i wouldn't have said anything at all. But im not going to force you to come if you dont want to, ehich is why i said "if you want to" That does not mean make me choose between you going and not going 🙄🙄🙄🙄Im not saying shit anymore. You cant be this indecisive of a person for something as simple as tagging along with someone to go shopping.