Man, I need to stay out of others business 😂
My cousin (f) is dating this cool guy for some time now and I see him as a family member.
I posted on FB, saying Happy Thanksgiving to my family and friends and tagged the guy my cousin's dating. Now, like 2 years or so ago, I was asking my cousin a personal question, which she didn't tell me and told me that it's her business, and rightfully so. So ever since then, I respected that and had a bit of a reality check when asking about something personal from others, so I stopped meddling in people's business. Though, I am quite the eavesdropper whenever someone is talking/having a conversation with someone else. I don't go repeating it, though. Don't repeat things you hear to others, because depending on who you're telling it to, can get you in trouble. And in some cases, will lead to drama and you're the instigator. If it is not that scenario, then you're just being a parrot.
Back to my story, my cousin's boyfriend commented something that I mistook for something else (or you could call it a double meaning). So I messaged him and asked if he and my cousin broke up. He was confused, so I refreshed him, which he didn't give me a direct explanation on the meaning of this comment, though. He told me what his comment had to do with him and my cousin, which he had a point.😂
Halfway through the short little confrontation, I noticed that I had asked a personal question, which is also personal to my cousin and I wanted a time machine so badly. I feel bad now.
I didn't want to seem sketchy, so I told him the truth about me seeing him as family, even though we hardly see each other. I still feel bad.
I posted on FB, saying Happy Thanksgiving to my family and friends and tagged the guy my cousin's dating. Now, like 2 years or so ago, I was asking my cousin a personal question, which she didn't tell me and told me that it's her business, and rightfully so. So ever since then, I respected that and had a bit of a reality check when asking about something personal from others, so I stopped meddling in people's business. Though, I am quite the eavesdropper whenever someone is talking/having a conversation with someone else. I don't go repeating it, though. Don't repeat things you hear to others, because depending on who you're telling it to, can get you in trouble. And in some cases, will lead to drama and you're the instigator. If it is not that scenario, then you're just being a parrot.
Back to my story, my cousin's boyfriend commented something that I mistook for something else (or you could call it a double meaning). So I messaged him and asked if he and my cousin broke up. He was confused, so I refreshed him, which he didn't give me a direct explanation on the meaning of this comment, though. He told me what his comment had to do with him and my cousin, which he had a point.😂
Halfway through the short little confrontation, I noticed that I had asked a personal question, which is also personal to my cousin and I wanted a time machine so badly. I feel bad now.
I didn't want to seem sketchy, so I told him the truth about me seeing him as family, even though we hardly see each other. I still feel bad.
