I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

I do too. But we can’t act like women don’t. If a woman hits a man she shouldn’t be shocked if he hits her back. NO I’m not saying it’s okay but we are human and I don’t understand how they play victim (when they hit them first) if you know what they’ll do and they’re temper or whatever don’t push them to that limit. Idk I explained myself correctly...I don’t want to sound like if a guy hits a girl “oh well” I’m saying don’t go around hitting them and then cry when you get a smack in return.

How about no one hits anyone lol

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Except in very rare circumstances, most men are bigger, taller and more muscular than women. It is not OK for them to hit women. They have lots of other choices women usually do not have; they can stop her from hurting them without attacking her back. And they can get away from women if they need to. But if a man attacks a woman, she cannot easily get away from him or successfully defend herself.

You have a compassionate attitude toward men who are attacked by women. That's OK. I just hope your naive attitude toward this kind of situation doesn't ever land you in the kind of situation where you are being hit by a man and then blaming yourself because you "pushed him too far." Please remember it is not OK for a man to hit a woman.

SuperA · 70-79, F

@greenmountaingal Both male and female children need to have respect for themselves and others as well.
I believe in "personal responsibility." I am responsible only for myself. I hopefully have taught my children well.

Judemaixcx · 22-25, F

@greenmountaingal I already stated that it’s not okay for a man to hit a woman

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@Judemaixcx Maybe I should mention that my dad was a peaceful gentleman. And my mother beat him, putting him in the hospital twice before he divorced her. He was afraid to even attempt to defend himself because of her power and role in the Internal Security section of the old Communist Party (CPUSA 1921-1989). I was close to my dad, and my mother terrorized me; I do have a lot of sympathy for men attacked by women.

SuperA · 70-79, F

I have daughters and a son. I taught ALL my children not to lay hands on anybody. Only exception was if they were defending themselves or defending their children.

Judemaixcx · 22-25, F

@SuperA I was taught the same

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Yup. I had a gf who would get scrappy. Punched me a few times. I'm not a dummy, though, if I returned fire, I would be in jail. What a world we live in. Anyway, I got rid of her.

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@Judemaixcx I know. Should have shown her the door much much earlier than I did.

Judemaixcx · 22-25, F

@uncalled4 I hope my post didn’t come off as it’s okay for a guy to hit a girl or whatever I mean that females shouldn’t use the law that guys can’t as an advantage and end up getting hurt. I wish there was no violence at all

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@Judemaixcx I like the part where no one hits on anyone else. :)

FaeLuna · 31-35, F

Ideally, it's just don't hit other people, ever.

But if you do start a fight, you don't get to complain if you lose.

Quoththeraven

Sage advice

bijouxbroussard · F

I agree with this. I’ve never understood how some women feel free to haul off and slap a man because they’re angry, but “he can’t hit me, I’m a woman”. Everyone should keep their hands to themselves.

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Judemaixcx · 22-25, F

@Keaten I’m glad they left. It’s heartbreaking that people go through that

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