Logging out = hiding stuff?

I don’t care to sit there and read every detail of my boyfriends messages. However, he thinks that because I don’t want him to log out of his accounts on his phone that he is accusing me of reading all his messages, when that’s not the case. I don’t think he should log out because if he trusted that I wasn’t reading it and he had nothing to hide he shouldn’t need to log out. People who log out do so so people don’t see what’s on there right? Opinions please.

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rrraksamam · 31-35, M

If I had a girlfriend, she'd have the passwords for all my socials.

I log out of my accounts so that I'm offline.
I don't want to stay online if I'm not actively online.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@rrraksamam I’m not sure if your familiar with apple products but what about iMessage. If you had 2 devices would you get the messages sent to both or just one? Would you log out of iMessage after every time your done talking

rrraksamam · 31-35, M

@Fifidog If the account is one, then both devices would receive the messages. The number of devices doesn't matter.

I don't use Apple products. I'm not sure how iMessage works.

CommandLine · 56-60, M

You should always logout. Makes it harder for hackers.
You really need to work on the trust issues though.
I do not let anyone look at my accounts, I have nothing to hide, but it's bad security.
Always use MFA if you can.

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@CommandLine what is mfa? Also how can I work on my trust issues. I always have these bad thoughts in my mind and I think about the past and get flashbacks

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

Seems like you are both having trust issues

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@MyNameIsHurl possibly how can we work on that

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@Fifidog I'm not sure, it usually comes with time

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