I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

i cant begin to describe how many times i had to prove i dont cut because of how i look. its honestly sad how many times i had to show people my wrists.

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

You don't have to prove anything to anybody. If anyone is rude enough to ask you about something like that, don't get defensive. And don't show them your arms so they can inspect you. It's demeaning. Ignore them or change the subject. Or, if you feel you must respond with something, say, "No. Are you a heroin addict?" And glance at [i]their[/i] arms.

lyralightbringer · 18-21, F

i dont get that defensive. showing my arms are my way of trying to end the conversation as quickly as possible (mostly cuz sometimes they say this to make fun of me, so trying to change the subject will make them think i am cutting). also, that comeback is amazing, i have to use it sometime lol

Leyenda · 31-35, M

It's often ignorance that tends to present itself at these times. It's like you appreciate that they care enough to be concerned but at the same time insulting because you don't do it. Lol.

lyralightbringer · 18-21, F

well, some seem to care. ive had some people try to insult me by saying i cut, and im just like no, i dont!

Leyenda · 31-35, M

@lyralightbringer: Personally in my experience, school is a social nightmare. I swear. :/

lyralightbringer · 18-21, F

thats why im almost always listening to music in there. just block out any jerks there

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

just stand there, don't say a thing... then do a weird circular wave with one of your hands, very gently and then move on.

confuses the hell out of the humaniturds out there.

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