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You racist bastard ....

I hope I can get this out clearly.
I tend to jump from rabbit hole to rabbit hole and things sometimes come out convoluted.
Today may be one of those days but I have such an interesting story to share I will give it a shot.

I have been around quite a bit in my life. I have seen and been the target of people's sociological ignorance, intolerance and segregation on many occasions.
It looks like to me people are very insecure and try to surround their selves with others that look and act just like them. It is just the natural order of things.
This isn't coming out right so I will just get to my story.

I was working for heat exchange company that specialized in on-site repair. I was about 26.
One time I had to go to Dubuque Iowa to repair a chiller in the basement of the coolest hotel I have ever seen.
The hotel was one of those that had a piano bar and a few stores right in the lobby. Apparently it was a popular hangout with Al Capone when he was on the lamb.
At this time I had long hair and ear rings. I wore a bike riding leather jacket every place I went and normally wore a bandana on my head.
Let's just say I never looked like someone you should take home to meet Daddy.
I was going to be working with a technician from California. I met him at the job. His name was Francesco aloha. He was a Mexican that had come to the United States about 20 years prior. He spoke good English but with a very thick accent.
The job appeared to be going to take a few days and the hotel gave us a room. Of course the room was a shoe box on the 10th floor at the back of the hotel. We could only use the freight elevator to go to and from the boiler room in the basement.
Francesco was the man. He was pretty sedate and calm. He was very good at the work we were doing and had a lot of experience.

So towards the end of the job we were both in the basement working on the chiller when the job boss came into the basement.
Francesco spotted him and leaned over and told me to pay attention.
He said watch. The supervisor will talk to you rather than me because I am a foreigner. I laughed because this job was all about Francesco and his experience. I was just there to help him. Also Francesco was about 45 years old. To me it was kind of obvious he was the boss on this job.
So the boss walks up to me and Francesco. Looks directly at me and ask how is the job going? So I turned and looked at Francesco and asked him how is the job going? Francesco told me it was good and we should be done tomorrow afternoon. I turned and looked at the boss and repeated exactly what Francesco told me. Now mind you we are all about two feet apart. The boss asked me several more questions and I continued to do the same thing. That f***** actually stood there and acted like Francesco wasn't the one answering the questions. He was literally ignoring Francesco's presents. I think I even saw the humor in the situation while it was happening and got a little giggle.
After the boss left I looked at Francesco and exploded laughing. Francesco joined me. Then of course he had to say I told you so.
Francesco didn't seem to be bitter about it because I guess this wasn't his first rodeo dealing with this type of thing. But I have to say he took it very well.
I was in complete dismay over the fact that three adult professional men just played a game of real life phone booth.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Unbelievable!
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Dainbramadge Its unbelievable but not surprising to me, it's amazing how people are even unaware of their actions.

Numerous times as well have I noticed people speaking to me instead of my wife or both of us.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@JimboSaturn I wasn't even thinking about the woman aspect.
I guess because I am not racist, apparently, I don't think other people are.
In my world it is a very rare thing to happen. And like I said I get around a lot. Mind boggling.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Dainbramadge Same as my world. I find that the people who ignore the women are usually from different cultures within my country.
Unconscious biases. We all have them.
But only a few actually try and challenge them.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@HijabaDabbaDoo We actually have to take an on unconscious bias course at my workplace.
@JimboSaturn many work places do and I don't really think they're effective. What they do is bring the unconscious biases to the surface which research shows actually makes people double down on them. Perhaps not in front of others but on a personal level the defence kicks in.
I find that some sort of exchange between actual marginalised groups would be more productive but then you have lack of funding and motivation so it's still a work in progress.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@HijabaDabbaDoo I agree. It can make you more aware of some unconscious bias but if you hold a deep prejiduce against a group it won't help. It all depends on the maturity and open-mindedness of the participants.
bookerdana · M
Wow..what disrespect and rudeness its funny but it ain't at the same time
bookerdana · M
@Dainbramadge you write very naturally and well so i felt i was looking over your shoulder👀
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@bookerdana thank you so much.
I guess when I wrote it I was in deep reflection of the incident and so the details were pretty clear in my head.
I am glad that you put yourself into the story. That was what it was intended for.
bookerdana · M
@Dainbramadge I just know and appreciate good crisp writing..if I wanted to weite a full story (very rare here nowadays) I'd pull out my trusty quill...✍️ the transfer is where inspiration comes ...plus my typing sucks
Lostpoet · M
I've been through the same. Lol
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Lostpoet your last post was the inspiration for this. LOL
Lostpoet · M
@Dainbramadge Your story was a lot better put together.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Lostpoet I don't know about that. I'm having one of those days where my brain is thinking 200 things at the same time. Makes it kind of hard to get s*** out. LOL
But after reading your post I had to share this one. :-)
That is pretty racist.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@BohemianBabe I know right. That was the first and only real racist experience I have ever had.
I am glad Francesco was so laid back about it. He found as much humor in it as I did. How can you not laugh at people like that.? LOL
Iwillwait · M
That sux. 😞
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Iwillwait Thank God he found as much humor in it as I did.
Iwillwait · M
@Dainbramadge I promise you he is affected by that and was just being cavalier to get through the moment.
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Whats racist about that?
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@Dainbramadge Thats the problem there you are assuming just because he has an issue its automatically racist, I once had an Italian come up to me and say its because I am Italian, I said I only look at the people here as good workers or bad, he asked what am I? I replied and said you are a bad worker. So dont assuming anything.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Justenjoyit I also have seen people blame their shortcomings on things like race but this was an extreme case of Francesco being ignored by the boss simply because of his race.
I mean the boss over the looked the obvious Man in charge for what other reason?
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@Dainbramadge Dont forget there are always two sides to a story.
Lilnonames · F
Did the boss pay u instead haha
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Lilnonames I like the way you think. LOL
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Gangstress I have been treated differently because I had long hair or because of the clothes I wore or even the music I listened to. But this was so fantastic to actually witness.
I seriously think most of the world is good with sharing the other part of the world with different people. But I will be damned if there aren't real bigots on this planet. LOL
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@Dainbramadge yeh i can imagine. Its just a shame people still have these prejudices that they don't even know they have.
They just assumed coz im brown im from another country. Scary

 
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