I am hurt and sad

Yeah it's really rough when something traumatic happens and then no one can handle it so they leave. But now is a good time to find good people then.

I'm sorry for your loss and sorry that you are not finding comfort from people. Lots of people avoid those grieving because they don't know what to say. It's a terrible human trait. There are people who are better at it and they will be available for whatever you need. Keep reaching out and the people with substance will answer.

I'm very sorry for your loss, and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your mom, I know that at times like this words seem simply inadequate to even touch the overwhelming feelings of sadness, please know that someone is holding you in my thoughts and prayers,

Sorry to hear of your loss, have you tried talking to your dad as if he is still there? It can help you to to put things in order, maybe give some comfort. People may feel awkward chatting to you, don't take it personally.

I did message you to see if you were OK and you didn't reply
Just wanted to see how you wete doing

I don't understand that.
I would think your friends would want to be with you - show you they care. (((hug)))

Why do you think no one will talk to you now did someone say that to you?

Waves hi…wonders how you are doing? 2022 start off ok?

so sorry , i know its tough.

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