I’m sick and tired of men controlling everything I do in life I want to study and get a good job but I can’t because they control everything I do in l

Life thinking I don’t want to work when I do , and they assume I like it that they want to make me a stay at home wife, when I don’t want that , I assume every guy is different and want to give me my freedom but they are all the same they want to control me , because they are afraid I’m not going to need them