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I Have Diabetes

I went to the doctor yesterday morning and my doctor could see though my lies. She looked at my weight and looked pissed. I got my results for my blood work and....her smile went away quick. She looked at me and got in my face. She said, "Why haven't you been following the diet plan I told you about? You've gained 28 pounds! Cut the carbs, bread, sugar and all that junk. I told you to LAY OFF the junk food. Your blood sugar is very high, you don't give a damn, your lazy and damn it...YOU HAVE DIABETIES!! TYPE 1 DIABETIES!"
I was shocked. I said, "I...I don't understand, I've been working out. My mom is depressed and-" she cut me off and said, "NO YOU HAVEN'T! You are 326 pounds! If you would have followed the plan like I told you in the first place, you would be in this situation. It's YOUR fault! Your aunt is right. You don't care. You are lazy, you only care about what you put I your mouth. Stuffing yourself with garbage and you have gotten FAT. Yes I said it, FAT! Don't drag your mother into this. Just because she is depressed and gained weight doesn't mean to need to be like her! You don't need your mom and dad to back you up! This is YOUR fault!" She shocked me with those harsh words and made me cry HARD. She didn't care. She left me suffer. I tried to hug her but she pushed my arms away. She said that when I see her in the next appointment, I better lose the weight and follow the healthy eating plan and don't disappoint her again and told me to leave.
I'm getting a different doctor. She was rude and called me fat.
I've had fainted, cramps everyday from eating junk and had flashes.
I said before I left, "Well I say I am normal size! How dare you!" Then she shoot right back at me, "That is because everyone else is fat! No arguing back! Please just go."
My aunt is going to be PISSED. I haven't told her yet.
I recently had a check up. B/work indicated I have diabetes. Now I take horse pills with my dinner meals and try and watch what I consume. Hope you improve your health!
Tracos · 51-55, M
She may have been rude, but if that what it takes to get a vital message across, she has my respect...

... sorry
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
You are!! How do you not think so?? I’m 230 as a 6’3” male and I need to lose at least 20 lbs@NotValid
NotValid · 31-35, F
@Tracos You're mean
Tracos · 51-55, M
@NotValidplease tell me.... what would you prefer.. .what kind of message would help you best?
Rosepetal78 · 46-50, F
I'm sorry but, I'm with the doctor. If my doctor was like her I mostly wouldn't be dealing with the health problems I have now. Sometimes we need tough love even from our doctors, to get our act together. Getting another doctor who really doesn't know you is only going to hurt you in the end. Or one that doesn't care about your health but the money you put in their pocket, it's not going to help you.
NotValid · 31-35, F
@Rosepetal78 My aunt yelled at me. She got very brutally honest and tough on me.
Classy · 22-25, FVIP
Sounds like she just told you the truth 🤷🏻‍♀️ Only person to be upset with is yourself
NotValid · 31-35, F
@Classy No she got in my face and made me cry!
Melpomene · 22-25, F
Is that what really happened?
NotValid · 31-35, F
@Melpomene Yes 😭
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@NotValid Can we talk in PM, if you've calmed a bit? It's ok to cry but once it starts it's best to just let it all out so I'd rather not interrupt
NotValid · 31-35, F
@Melpomene ok thanks
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NotValid · 31-35, F
@Roseyrose Nobody cares about my feelings
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She's 100% right
NotValid · 31-35, F
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters she called me fat
justbob · 61-69, M
Diabetes means a change in lifestyle. It kinda sucks but it gets easier in time. I've been living with it for the last 5 years. Whatever you do, take it seriously. My aunt's diabetes killed her after two amputations.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@justbob Woah. 2!
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NotValid · 31-35, F
@Geoff53 That means she will lecture and criticize me for not listening.
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lou502008 · 61-69, M
in order to get help, you have to want help!
you dont seem to want it!!!
NotValid · 31-35, F
@lou502008 Yes I do!
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
At 326 pounds,howdoyoutjink that's normal size.Im obese at over 150 less than that. ok
That’s uncalled for. The treatment fat people get from doctors is inexcusable.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Where did you get your medical license?

 
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